As an Army veteran, I’ve heard the “thank you for your service” phrase again and again, especially during Veterans Day celebrations. I do feel honored when I hear this but I know many of my brothers and sisters that often feel annoyed because many times it comes across like an empty gesture. I often wonder how many people really think about what service truly means or have ever talked with a former service member about life in the military.
There are over 1.5 million currently serving as active-duty members in the military and over 17 million veterans who served in our nation’s defense. While these selfless individuals preserve and protect freedom around the globe, the price of their service is never free. Military members and their loved ones endure long separations, frequent moves, distance from extended family, and service-related health issues.
Veterans sacrificed not just in what they did during their time in the military, but in what they didn’t do or have — the typical entry-level positions or a 9-to-5 job that provides career advances, a competitive salary and time to enjoy quality time with their family and friends.
Too often, we think holding a parade or shaking a veteran’s hand is the extent of our duty to them. But if we really want to honor veterans, we should do something more substantive. What you do for a veteran is often more important than what you say.
Support veteran-owned companies
The Census Bureau estimates that there are nearly 2.5 million veteran-owned businesses in the United States – that’s nearly 10 percent of all businesses nationwide. Find a veteran-owned company near you and pay them a visit today! (https://www.veteranownedbusiness.com/)
Make a commitment to volunteer
With the aid of the Internet, finding meaningful volunteer opportunities is virtually effortless. Search the Veterans & Military Families category on www.VolunteerMatch.com to find a hospital, charity or other organization that needs help near you!
Treat a vet to lunch, dinner or a cup of coffee
Inviting a veteran to a popular local restaurant or cozy coffeehouse could just make their day. Prepare a few questions to ask about their time in the military. Being the center of attention for an hour or so will be an even better treat than the meal!
Invite a veteran to speak at your child’s school
Many children don’t fully understand the sacrifices veterans have made to protect us and our freedoms, but you can do something to change that! Ask your child’s principal if they accept visiting speakers. If they do, invite a veteran to talk about their experiences or host a Q&A session at your child’s school.
Nothing at all wrong with thanking a veteran for their service. Just make it form the heart.
To veterans everywhere:
I am sincerely grateful for your service and sacrifice. Your sacrifices have not gone unnoticed, especially the time spent away from your own families! I am grateful for your valor, sacrifice, and service to preserve and protect our country’s values.
